Intentions vs. Actions

it doesn't really matter whether or not you have good or bad intentions, it really doesn't fuckin' matter. it's your actions that exemplify your state of mind and reveal your true character. "actions speak louder than words." come on, we all know this by now.

if you don't intend to lie, yet you never spill the truth, then you are, in fact, a liar.

you can good-intention your ass off to the world, but what you do speaks to who you are. your selfish acts will not go unseen. but it really is okay, though, for the people around you, because you're the one who has to live with yourself at the end of the day.

you'd like to think that your actions don't have consequences, but they do. and whether or not you even care, you are losing respect.
even if nobody gets hurt from your actions, the validity of your so-called friendship will become questioned. when the outcome is unknown, and you still take the dive, you are then risking someone else's happiness for the sake of your own.
that's when you become spilled milk.